If they aren't lifting you and others around them, they are tearing others down...we've heard this before. But we always have a choice and must use our own toolbox while respecting our boundaries...of course lol. We can cut them out or we can give them a lift them up. Are they fundamentally a heart-led person? If so, reach out and reach down so you can help nudge them back to a state of alignment. If they have a pattern of holding others down because of their own negative view of themselves, love them and encourage them to examine the root of their pain, but release yourself of the burden to "save" them. It is your purpose to love hard on people yes, but they must do the work...and they must make the decision do the work if its gonna stick. If they respond to your compassion, yay! I could speak to this all daaaaaay...but Ill leave it at that for now. I will be adding to this later today. In the meantime, Be Kind, Be Impeccable with your words, show compassion, don't take things personally...you know the drill.

What you hand out on a silver platter, may or may not return on a plate at all...but LOVE you enough not to care if it comes back. You'll be a-ok either way if you're a #girlwholifts.